The concept
HOW DOES IT WORK?
01
Receive an invitation
Access begins with a personal invitation and a private invitation code.
The code gives you access to the application process. It does not guarantee acceptance. Every application is reviewed individually before anyone is invited into the private circle.
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Complete your application
You share selected information about yourself, your lifestyle, values, intentions and the kind of connection you are looking for.
Your answers are not displayed publicly. They are used to understand you as a person and to assess whether The Select Table is the right environment for you.
03
Personal review
Every application is reviewed personally by Noemi.
No automated AI system decides who belongs in the circle or who is introduced to whom. Personality, lifestyle, intentions, values and overall compatibility are considered alongside attraction.
The goal is not to collect as many profiles as possible. The goal is to identify people who genuinely belong together.
Following acceptance, male applicants receive clear information about the applicable one-time Introduction Fee and the related terms before completing their profile. No payment is requested before the application has been reviewed and accepted.
04
Personal verification
Before an introduction is considered, accepted applicants complete a short personal verification step, including a brief video call.
This helps confirm authenticity and creates trust on both sides. Verification information is not displayed publicly and is not shared with a potential match.
05
Carefully selected matches
You will never receive an endless list of profiles.
Instead, a small number of carefully selected introductions may be considered based on your preferences, values, lifestyle and availability.
Only a concise profile introduction is shared with a potential match. Your full application, private answers and personal contact details remain confidential. Nothing is shared without your prior approval.
06
Mutual interest
No private social media profiles, personal addresses or direct contact details are exchanged by the matchmaker.
Both people are contacted separately. Only when genuine interest exists on both sides will a meeting be considered.
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The first meeting
Once both people agree, a discreet first meeting is arranged in a suitable public location. The date will be coordinated personally, including the location, timing and selected optional services. Both people remain free to decide how they wish to continue after meeting.
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After the date
After the introduction, both participants receive a private follow-up message.
You may share how the meeting felt, whether you would like to meet again and whether further contact was exchanged.
Your feedback helps improve the experience and ensures that future introductions are made with greater care.
A HUMAN PROCESS IN A DIGITAL WORLD
Technology may support the process, but it does not replace personal judgement.