SAFETY & DISCRETION
TRUST SHOULD COME BEFORE THE INTRODUCTION.
A private introduction only works when both people feel respected, informed and in control.
At The Select Table, discretion is not an additional feature. It is the foundation of the entire experience.
DISCREET FIRST MEETING
When both people express mutual interest, the first meeting is arranged in a suitable public location.
Private home addresses are not exchanged. Optional transport and concierge services may be arranged separately, always with the participant’s knowledge and consent. You decide how the connection continues after the meeting.
Our privacy policy
Your information is processed only for application review, verification, communication, selection and the organisation of introductions. Technical service providers such as hosting, email and payment providers may process limited data where necessary to provide the service. Further details are explained transparently in our Privacy Policy. Discretion is not about hiding who you are. It is about deciding carefully who gets to know you.
Your Personal contact
You are never left alone with an automated platform. Noemi remains your personal point of contact throughout the process and is available for questions, clarification and feedback. After the meeting, both participants receive a private follow-up message to share their experience and decide whether they would like to continue.
PERSONAL VERIFICATION
Every accepted applicant completes a personal verification step before an introduction is considered. This includes a short video call to confirm authenticity and create a genuine point of trust before two people meet.
Verification information is not displayed publicly and is not shared with a potential match.
PRIVATE APPLICATIONS
Your application is never turned into a public dating profile. Your personal answers, contact details, preferences and private information remain confidential and are used only to assess your application and prepare suitable introductions. No public search. No anonymous profile catalogue. No endless exposure.
Personal permission
A potential match does not receive your full application.
Only a carefully selected short introduction is prepared. Before any information is shared, you are informed about what may be included and can approve it. Your phone number, social media profiles, private address and other direct contact details are not shared before mutual interest has been established.
NO AI-MATCHING
No AI system decides who you meet. Every application and potential introduction is reviewed personally by Noemi, taking into account lifestyle, values, intentions, personality and compatibility. Technology may support the process, but personal judgement remains at the centre.